By Noah Love
Dear Diary,
I’ve been thinking a lot about my American Dream lately. It’s kinda Funny how the things I used to dream about, don’t feel as important anymore.
I remember when I was younger, I wanted the typical stuff – a husband, kids, pets, and of course, to be wealthy. I thought that was what success meant. But now, when I think about it, I realize how lucky I’ve been. Growing up with a family that had the means to send me to competitions and travel the world for equestrian shows was such privilege. Not everyone gets to experience that and I don’t take it for granted (mostly). I’ve been able to do something I love, something that not only shaped who I am but also opened so many doors.
I also started thinking about my dad and how different his life was growing up in the U.S. My grandfather came to this country from the Dominican Republic and had my father here. Even though my dad grew up here, he still faced a lot of racism and had to work so hard to get where he is today. I’ve never had to deal with any of that and I know that’s mainly because of the opportunities I’ve had. I’ve never felt held back by my gender or ethnicity, but I can’t ignore the fact that my family’s financial stability has played a huge part in that.
So, if I had to define my American Dream now, it’s shifted. It’s not about wealth or success anymore. It’s about being happy, healthy, and surrounded by the people I love. That’s what truly matters.
With love,
Yourself (M♡)
M is…
- 20 years old
- Female
- White and Hispanic
- Straight
- Middle Class
- Jewish